Hawaiian surf culture and community at Honoli'i Beach Park

Culture & Etiquette

The Unwritten Rules of Honoliʻi's Sacred Waters

Kalani Miller, local surfing expert

Written by a Local Surfing Expert

Kalani Miller

Entering a Sacred Community

Paddling out at Honoliʻi is about more than just catching waves. It's about entering a community. Hawaiʻi is the birthplace of heʻe nalu, the sport of kings, a practice once reserved for our aliʻi (royalty). This history imbues our surf spots with a sacredness that demands respect. At Honoliʻi, where the waves are a precious and limited resource for the entire Hilo community, this respect is the currency of the lineup.

The vibe here is generally welcoming, but that welcome is earned through humility. A friendly nod, a shaka, a genuine smile—these small gestures show you understand you're a guest. The strict etiquette you'll observe is not about aggression or unfriendly "localism." It's a functional system born from necessity.

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Understanding the Hierarchy

Earned Respect, Not Exclusion

Let's be direct, because this is the most important advice I can give you: the pecking order is real. This is a local's beach, and a hierarchy exists in the water based on skill, experience, and time served at the break. As a visitor, your place is not at the top of that order. This isn't meant to be exclusive. It's about paying your dues and showing you understand the culture.

My advice for any newcomer is simple:

🌊 Start on the Inside

Don't paddle straight out to The Point and sit at the peak. Begin your session at Mids or on the inside. Watch, listen, and get a feel for the flow of the lineup.

Patience is a Virtue

Let a few sets roll through before you even try for a wave. Show the regulars that you're not there to greedily take every wave you can.

🎁 Give Waves Away

If you and a local are paddling for the same wave and there's any doubt who has priority, pull back and let them have it. This single act of deference earns more respect than anything else.

The Cardinal Rules

There are also universal cardinal sins that apply here with extra weight. Master them before you get your feet wet.

🚫 Never Drop In

This is the ultimate offense. Dropping in means taking off on a wave when another surfer is already up and riding closer to the peak, giving them priority. It is dangerous and supremely disrespectful.

🏊‍♂️ Paddle Wide

When you're paddling back out to the lineup, always go wide, paddling through the whitewater or on the wave's shoulder. Never paddle through the middle of the break where someone might be surfing towards you.

💬 Communicate and Apologize

If you make a mistake—and everyone does—a simple, sincere "sorry" is all it takes. Acknowledging your error shows respect and diffuses tension immediately.

The Culture Lives On

The culture here is rich and beautiful. You'll see surfers like Aloha Kapono, who blends the grace of her hula training with her longboarding style, creating a dance on the water. You'll feel the wisdom of elders like "Bradda Skibs" Nehls, who teaches that "a negative vibe can't flow with something so positive." Come with an attitude of learning and respect, and you'll find that the community opens its arms.

The Aloha Spirit in Action

What You'll Experience:

  • • Graceful longboard dancing
  • • Hula-inspired surf styles
  • • Multi-generational sharing
  • • Ancient wisdom in modern practice

How to Connect:

  • • Show genuine interest in learning
  • • Ask respectful questions
  • • Listen more than you speak
  • • Participate in beach cleanups
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Mālama Honua: The Community That Saved Its Surf Spot

A Story of Redemption and Responsibility

To truly understand the soul of Honoliʻi, you have to know its story of redemption. It's a story of kuleana (responsibility) and mālama honua (caring for the Earth), and it's a story that no other guide will tell you in its full depth.

The Dark Days

In the early 2000s, this sacred place was in a state of disgrace. The park was neglected, overgrown with invasive species, and treated as a garbage dump. Locals tell stories of people pushing old cars and appliances over the cliff into the gulch. It was a heartbreaking sight for the community that held the spot so dear.

The Hero: "Bradda Skibs" Nehls

That's when a local surfer and community leader named Keith Nehls, known to everyone as "Bradda Skibs," decided enough was enough. Inspired by the teachings of his grandfather and a deep-seated belief in giving back to the land, he founded a nonprofit organization called Honoliʻi Paka under the umbrella of his group, Basic Image Inc., on November 15, 2003. Their mission was simple but profound, guided by the philosophy: "Give before you gather or surf."

The Transformation Process:

  • • Weekly community cleanups
  • • Hauling out tons of rubbish
  • • Clearing invasive brush
  • • Restoring natural beauty
  • • Small but dedicated core group
  • • Never gave up despite challenges
  • • Transformed eyesore to treasure
  • • Secured $1/year lease from landowner

The Legacy Continues

This spirit of stewardship is now woven into the fabric of the park. Bradda Skibs and Honoliʻi Paka made it their mission to pass this kuleana to the next generation. They started the annual Honoliʻi Paka Honua Surfing Classic, a free surf contest for local keiki that's more about fostering community, aloha, and environmental responsibility than it is about winning. You can see this legacy in young local riders like Rumor and Diesel Butts, who are part of the "Basic Image" crew, proudly cleaning the beach every Saturday before they surf.

Your Kuleana as a Visitor

So when you visit Honoliʻi, understand that you are not just a tourist at a public park. You are a guest in a home that was lovingly rebuilt and is diligently cared for by its family. The price of admission is respect.

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Pack out everything you pack in

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Pick up trash that isn't yours

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Leave it better than you found it

🤙 Etiquette Checklist

Watch before paddling out
Start on the inside
Give waves to locals
Paddle wide around surfers
Never drop in
Apologize for mistakes

🌺 Aloha Spirit

"A negative vibe can't flow with something so positive."

- Bradda Skibs Nehls

  • Come with humility and respect
  • Learn from the community
  • Give back more than you take

🏆 Community Heroes

Bradda Skibs Nehls

Founder, Honoliʻi Paka

Aloha Kapono

Hula-inspired longboarding

Basic Image Crew

Next generation stewards

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